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Offer Support, Not Blame

Staci Neustadt

How often do we respond with frustration or blame when things don’t go as expected?


For autistic individuals, this response can feel overwhelming and disheartening, often triggering fight-or-flight reactions. But what if, instead of blaming an autistic individual for not responding the way we expected, we focused on offering support?


In our latest Making Sense of Autism video, Staci (SLP) and Susan (autistic retired OT) dive into this critical mindset shift. We explore why autistic individuals may respond inconsistently, how their neurological differences play a role, and what we, as parents, teachers, or therapists, can do to offer meaningful support instead of assuming the worst.


You'll learn:

  • Why blame often leads to shutdowns or meltdowns.

  • How to recognize when someone needs support—and what kind of support to offer.

  • Simple strategies to foster connection, independence, and trust.


This conversation will challenge you to rethink old habits and adopt a more compassionate, neuro-affirming approach that helps everyone thrive.


Let’s build a world where support replaces blame—and where everyone feels seen, understood, and empowered.


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